The girl I like is so perfect to me and she rejected me at homecoming twice. I sound creepy but I love her with all my heart and I need her to be mine. I will literally do anything for her! I don’t know what to do but I need her in my life. I cry in my pillow every single night over her and I feel so heartbroken. What to do? Please help me.

-Heartbroken

Dear Heartbroken,
I’m sure this girl carries a lot of wonderful qualities that cause you to feel this way about her. That being said, I don’t think you should let her control your emotions. In love and relationships, there is one person that should always come before your significant other and that person is you. Take care of yourself first. Make sure you are happy with or without the person you like, no matter how much you like them. Don’t depend on someone to bring you happiness. Find happiness within yourself. Once you love yourself completely, it’s much easier for someone else to love you. Who knows, maybe when you truly start to love yourself, she’ll come around. For now, focus on you.

Remember, start by loving yourself.

Sarah